Mother Therapy basically teaches mothers how to treat their
children’s psychological problems and let them treat their children by
themselves.
Mothers might feel strange about Mother
Therapy and think ‘what is this?’
1. Is it really
possible for me to treat my own children when other experts and counselors
failed to treat their psychological treatment?
2. How do I
learn without professional knowledge?
3. Can my
children be really treated without counseling?
4. My children
are different from other children. Mother Therapy won’t be effective.
5. I have never
heard of this treatment method, does that really work?
6. How come
only mothers should be ones to learn Mother Therapy? Why not fathers?
Besides these, they might wonder what Mother
Therapy is, think of it as strange, burdensome… So, sometimes, they cannot
easily make up their mind to take Mother Therapy.
Unlike fathers,
mothers carry emotions. Of course, they suffer in hardships
many times due to the occurrence of wounds since their emotions operate, but
they also have emotions of love and happiness.
Mothers
basically have maternal love (emotion of unconditional love) to their children.
Fathers also have paternal love, but this is different from maternal love. It
is an unconscious feeling to protect the family, not emotion. Therefore, since emotion of
love is necessary to treat children, mothers need to know the method to treat
their children’s psychological problems.
Even though counselors or experts have
outstanding treatment method, they only spend 1~2 hours with children when
treating their psychological problems. Due to this, it is either not effective
to treat children’s problems at all or takes a very long time until it finally
treats the problems.
Also, psychological problems of children are not psychological
disorders that must be treated but very natural phenomena that occur in their
growing process of making memories and habits through phases of survival, adaptation
to relationship, and formation of self-identity. However, from the
adults’ point of view, your children seem to have psychological problems. So,
children’s psychological problems can be resolved if you manage their
psychology a little bit in daily routines with love for your children. When
treating children’s psychological problems, it is better to think that you are removing their
problems, not treating them.
Mothers are the
ones who have maternal love, the love to their children; the ones who spend
time with children the most are also mothers. The ones who can make the most
stable psychological operation with children and the ones who have the greatest
impact on children’s psychology are mothers as well.
Therefore, Mother Therapy is the psychological treatment method for
children that mothers directly treat their own children by allowing them to
have the ability to treat children’s psychological problems. However, for
mothers, it is very important in the process of rearing children since they
will have the ability to treat any of children’s psychological problems.
Once mothers learn Mother Therapy, they will
be able to treat any of children’s psychological problems in rearing. Then,
mothers will no
more experience difficulties in rearing children due to their psychological
problems. Therefore, if you
are a mother, you must take Mother Therapy.
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