There is nothing new about children’s
psychological problems; however, you can notice that children’s psychological problems are
getting more various, more expanded, and more serious.
Juvenile crimes are very serious socially,
but resolutions are only
punishment-centered. It is very difficult to find solution-focused or
treatment-focused methods, which is very serious and sad.
- Do your children listen to you
very well because they are very kind?
- Are they always bright and
cheerful without any psychological problems?
- Do they study hard and are they
model students at schools?
- Are
they happy?
How many mothers do you think would say ‘yes’
to these questions with confidence? From mothers’ point of view, children might
seem to be happy.
However, you will know that the phenomena
mentioned above could happen to children with serious problems as well
if you understand the principles of how their mind and psychology operate.
You should understand
that children’s psychological problems become more various and more serious
since societies, schools, and households, in reality, view their psychological
problems seriously.
Societies, schools, and households perceive
all of the children’s psychological problems as psychological disorders and try
to treat them, but in fact, these problems are nothing but trials and errors
that occur naturally in their psychological developmental process. These trials
and errors can be fixed easily and disappear if they are adjusted a little bit,
but they will end up being psychological disorders if they are predicated and
treated as psychological disorders.
That is to say that your children are in the preparation process
to become adults.
It is very natural to experience trials and
errors in this process. Their mind and psychology must not be interpreted in
the adults’ point of view. We need to talk about their trials and errors
together and have the wisdom to adjust and correct their psychology joyfully so
they can grow in a right and healthy way.
We,
Caring Mother Society, try our best to change these serious societies, schools,
and households into right and healthy ones. Why don’t you start trying to change your
children first?
Mothers should get involved in so children
can live with healthy body and mind pursuing their happiness when become
adults.
Do
not blame societies, schools, and others. Make yourselves experts in children’s
psychological treatment from now on. Then
your children will grow happily; you will be happy as well.
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