It is
very natural that mothers love their children. Because of this, mothers tend to think that
their children are special and different from other children; this is very
natural phenomena. However, due to this tendency, they tend to make useless efforts
that are not effective at all to treat children when they have psychological
problems because they think their children are special.
- My child is not going to be treated with
using the same method other children use.
- My child needs special treatment method
because he/she is in a different environment and situation from others’
- I must look for a well-known expert to
treat my special child
- There must be the right method for my
children among various treatment methods.
- I don’t want to believe that my special
child has psychological problems.
- my child’s
psychological problems are due to others (teachers, friends, social
environments)
Besides these, with various thoughts, they
are certain that their children are different from others; however, they must
understand that the mind and psychology of every child operate very similarly.
Every child goes through survival, adaptation
to relationship, and formation of self-identity; it is called the psychological
developmental process of PIR. Everyone goes through these stages. You, mothers,
went through these stages and have become mothers to pursue the happiness of
self-actualization.
Children will have
psychological problems if stress and wounds operate in their process of
psychological development, which consists of survival, adaptation to
relationship, and formation of self-identity. Psychological problems occur very commonly to children if
they are growing healthily. Psychological problems occur regardless
of thoughts that mothers think their children are special.
No one knows that
children’s mind and psychology operate differently in survival, adaptation to
relationship, and formation of self-identity and that causes of stress and
wounds are different.
That is why counselors
and experts fail to treat children’s psychological problems making you waste
your time, efforts, and costs.
Of course, your children are special for you,
but you must know that even your
children’s mind and psychology operate in the same way as other children’s mind
and psychology operate.
Through caring mother society, you will learn
that the same mind and psychology of your children and of other children are
operating and that these psychological problems are not common and not your
children’s problems through this principle. You will be able to prevent and
treat your children’s psychological problems through Mother Therapy of caring
mother society.
This is
the reason why caring mother society that makes the happiness of mothers’ and
of children’s is necessary for mothers.
Mother Therapy will allow mothers to prevent and
treat children’s psychological problems by learning the methods without
difficulties.
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