Different Psychology of Your Son and Your Daughter

If you are a mother, you will know that sons and daughters are different.

However, it is difficult for mothers with sons only to know the psychology of daughters. It is also difficult for mothers with daughters only to know the psychology of sons; and yet, anybody knows that sons and daughters are different.

Have you thought of the reason why sons and daughters are different?

I will not explain that your sons and daughters are physically different.

Besides their physical differences, psychology of your son and of your daughter is different. To explain in more detail, what’s different is not their psychology but their mind. By the difference in their mind, you feel as if their psychology is different. You feel that perception psychology that accepts outer information, memory psychology that remembers information and withdraw remembered information, and expression psychology that makes expressions outwardly are different.

The mind must be operated in the psychology of perception, memory, and expression.

Most people say that psychology is different, but the principle of how psychology operates is the same for both sons and daughters. What is different is their mind.

The mind of sons is ‘removing stress and pursuing only fun moods.’ The mind of daughters is ‘remembering stress as wounds by perception, trying to treat these wounds, and pursuing good emotions.’

Sons hate stress very much and try to avoid or remove stress immediately when it comes in. what they say and how they act are all for removing the stress. By doing so, they don’t remember stress.

On the other hand, daughters perceive stress and try to understand the stress when it comes in in order to treat it. That is why they keep asking and trying to know things clearly. What they say and how they act are for treating the stress. Daughters accept stress; they remember the stress that is not treated as wounds.

You will be able to know the difference between the psychology of sons and daughters more clearly by applying this simple principle of difference in mind. You cannot understand the psychology of your sons and of your daughters if you do not understand this principle.

When problems occur to your children while raising them, you keep facing difficult situations constantly without resolving problems because you cannot find what to do exactly without knowing this principle.