The most important thing among the ideas of Mother
Therapy is that ‘children’s psychological problems must not be
defined as psychological disorders.’
This means
that children’s psychological problems can occur in the process of growth and
that these problems can be resolved without difficulty if children’s psychology
is adjusted a little bit. That is why children’s problems are not psychological
disorders (if psychological problems are fixed, it will be difficult for them
to be recovered without expert’s treatment).
Psychological problems are the state where
psychology is recovered its original state and stabilized by adjusting the
psychology a little bit when problems occur in psychology as you live. On the other hand, the state where your psychology cannot
be recovered without expert’s treatment since psychological problems are
remained and fixed for over a certain period of time after the occurrence is
called psychological disorders.
Ultimately, it is very dangerous to define every single trials and
errors, negative or positive moods and emotions that could occur in the phases
of survival, adaptation of relationship, and formation of self-identity as
psychological disorders resulting in making the psychological problems unable
to be recovered.
This is why it is impossible to treat children’s
psychological problems with the existing psychological treatment methods for
children that define psychological problems as psychological disorders. It
would rather make children live with psychological
disorders even when they don’t have psychological disorders. Counselors
(experts) and even mothers do not perceive this problem as a serious error.
Your children
just have psychological problems; they are unable to recover their original
psychological state because they cannot adjust it. They
are healthily experiencing trials and errors in survival, adaptation to
relationship, and formation of self-identity; they are in the process of
learning negative and positive moods and emotions. Mothers should
understand that children are growing healthily event though they are
experiencing difficulties now due to psychological problems.
Your children do not have psychological disorders. You should
not make them have psychological disorders by forcing them to take unnecessary
psychological treatment.
You are able
enough to treat your children’s psychological problems as mothers. If you learn
the method that allows your children to recover healthy psychology by a little
bit adjusting their psychological problems, you can treat any of their
psychological problems without difficulty.
This
is why Mother Therapy is very important.
Keep in mind
that children’s problems are not psychological disorders but psychological
problems that could occur when they experience trials and errors in the process
of their growth.
Do not make
them live with psychological disorders.
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